
Discover the lessons within your incarnation
Why do certain themes seem to keep appearing in your life?
Why can a similar situation arise through different people, relationships or circumstances?
Within Soul Realignment®, Life Lessons are themes through which you have opportunities to become more aware of your patterns of choice and bring those choices into greater alignment with who you are at Soul level.
They are not punishments, and they do not mean that you have been sent to Earth to pass some kind of spiritual examination.
Instead, they reflect areas in which habitual patterns developed through previous choices may continue to influence the way you respond to your present-life experiences.
Understanding those themes gives you the opportunity to recognise them when they appear — and choose differently.
Your Primary Life Lesson
The Life Lessons you experience are not a universal to-do list. Their type and number depend on ego patterns created in this or previous lives that need to be addressed to return you to balance. Everyone has one Primary Life Lesson.
This represents the central theme through which you are currently learning to express your Divinity more consciously within your human experience.
A Life Lesson can be explored from different directions.
For example, a lesson involving Trust may not simply mean learning to trust more. It could involve recognising when trust is appropriate, when greater discernment is needed, learning to trust yourself, or discovering where trusting somebody else has moved you away from your own Truth.
There are different polarities within every lesson.
The objective is not simply to do more or less of something, but to discover what balanced expression of that quality looks like for you, taking into account your own Soul Profile and Divinity.
Your Secondary Life Lessons
In addition to your Primary Life Lesson, you will normally have between three and six Secondary Life Lessons.
These can be thought of as supporting themes or sub-themes.
They may interact with your Primary Life Lesson or trigger circumstances through which the larger theme becomes easier to recognise.
Having more Life Lessons does not make somebody more or less spiritually developed and there is not a list of lessons you have to experience.
They simply show the themes that are most relevant to your own journey and choices at this point in your incarnation.
How complete is each Life Lesson?
During your reading I establish a percentage of completion for your Primary and Secondary Life Lessons.
This is not a score and there is no pass or fail.
A high percentage may indicate that you already understand and express much of that particular lesson successfully, although an occasional tendency towards an old pattern may remain.
A lower percentage may indicate that the theme is relatively new or is currently becoming more important within your experience.
Neither is good or bad.
The percentage simply gives us another way of understanding where you currently are with that particular theme.
Life Lessons also evolve. As you become more conscious of your choices and integrate a lesson more fully, its percentage can change. A completed lesson may eventually be replaced by another theme that becomes relevant to your continuing development.
How is the lesson showing up in your life?
Knowing the name of a Life Lesson is only part of the reading.
We also investigate how each lesson is currently presenting itself.
Within the Soul Realignment process this is called the Current Aspect.
An Aspect describes the particular pattern through which you are presently experiencing the lesson.
For example, two people could both have the Life Lesson of Trust, yet the way Trust is presenting in their lives could be completely different.
Identifying the Current Aspect helps turn an abstract word such as Trust, Recognition, Acceptance, Harmony or Self-Worth into something you can recognise within your actual life.
Once you can see the pattern, you have a much greater opportunity to make a conscious choice rather than simply reacting from habit.
Where is the lesson appearing?
We then establish which areas of your life are currently being affected by each lesson.
These can include:
- Profession
- Finance
- Primary Relationship
- Health & Wellbeing
- Personal Development
- Spiritual Development
- Friendship
- Family
- Rest & Relaxation
- Physical Surroundings
- Community
One Life Lesson may currently be active in only one area, while another may be showing up through several different parts of your life.
This can be particularly illuminating when circumstances that initially appear unrelated turn out to be expressions of the same underlying lesson.
Bringing the pieces together
Your completed Life Lesson Reading therefore gives us four important pieces of information:
1. Your Primary Life Lesson
The central Life Lesson currently influencing your incarnation.
2. Your Secondary Life Lessons
The additional themes supporting and interacting with your Primary Lesson.
3. Percentage Completion
An indication of how far you have currently integrated each lesson into your human experience.
4. Current Aspect & Life Areas
How that lesson is presently expressing itself and where you are most likely to encounter it.
Together these create a much more detailed picture than simply being told, for example, “Your lesson is Trust.”
They help us explore what Trust means for you, how you are currently experiencing it, where it is appearing and how your choices can change your experience of it.
How does the Life Lesson Reading work?
1. Review your Soul Realignment 1 progress
Before beginning SR2 work, we review your experience since your Soul Realignment 1 reading.
You must have completed Soul Realignment 1 with me at least three months previously.
This gives you time to complete your original clearing work, practise living your Divinity and observe the choices and patterns that have developed since your first reading.
2. Access your Akashic Record
I return to your Akashic Record and use the Soul Realignment process and pendulum work to establish your:
- Primary Life Lesson
- Secondary Life Lessons
- percentage completion of each
- Current Aspect for each lesson
- areas of life in which each lesson is presently appearing
The information is then brought together with what we already know about your Soul Profile and Divinity.
3. Private presentation
I present and explain your findings during a private online session.
Rather than simply giving you a list of words and percentages, we relate the information to your current experiences so that you can understand how the lessons may actually be appearing in your life.
Your presentation is voice recorded so that you can listen to it again afterwards.
What do I receive?
Your Life Lesson Reading includes:
- your Primary Life Lesson
- your Secondary Life Lessons
- percentage completion for each lesson
- the Current Aspect through which each lesson is presenting itself
- the life areas currently affected
- explanation of how the different lessons may interact
- a private presentation of your findings
- a voice recording of the presentation
- written information detailing your results
- follow-up support should you need clarification afterwards
Living into your lessons
The purpose of identifying a Life Lesson is not to become obsessed with completing it.
Life Lessons are continually evolving opportunities for greater awareness.
Once you recognise a recurring pattern, you are no longer responding to it completely unconsciously.
You can begin asking:
What is this situation showing me?
Am I repeating an old pattern of choice?
What choice would better reflect who I know myself to be?
This is where the reading becomes useful.
Greater awareness gives you the opportunity to make different choices. Different choices create different patterns — and gradually allow you to express more of your Divinity through your everyday human experience.
The objective is not to rush through your lessons.
It is to understand them, work with them and perhaps even enjoy exploring them as part of your Soul journey.
Session details
Session Type: Life Lesson Reading (Informational).
Duration: 30-minute presentation plus ongoing support.
Session fee: GBP 70 / THB 3,000
Prerequisite: SR1 completed with me at least three months previously.
Minimum age: 18, or ages 3–17 with parental permission.
Online Availability
Online sessions and courses are currently available by appointment from anywhere in the world. Please contact me to arrange a booking for the session you require.
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Soul Realignment® was created by Andrrea Hess. For information about Soul Realignment® and training, visit www.soulrealignment.com.
